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Do Something Different
The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result. – Albert Einstein
If we desire different results, we must do something different. This implies that we are creating outcomes by what we do, and what we do is driven by what we think and believe. Assuming we do create our own reality, it follows that if we remain unchanged our reality will remain the same, but this is not the case. The world around us changes constantly, therefore if we continue to do the same thing over and over and think similar thoughts, never changing them, we are not really remaining the same, but rather we are refusing to accept change and by doing so are creating difficulty and resistance in our lives.
It is very modern and sounds extremely quantum to presume that we create our own reality, but how does it work that we impress our thoughts on the formless substance from which reality is created? The truth is that we are not creating anything, everything already exists. Energy brings forth vibration, the type of which depends on the frequency of the vibration. When we choose our thoughts and beliefs as the basis of our actions we are determining with which instance of vibration and energy we will resonate. There exists in the universe, infinite vibrations producing an unending amount of energy; therefore anything can happen and the possible combinations of thoughts, choices and actions of every living creature that has ever existed, or will exist, on every part of the planet, solar system, universe and all the dimensions outside of our own, make the number of realities that might exist beyond rational comprehension.
Yes, we are influenced by everything, even though we are not aware of every aspect of our multidimensional reality. We have no idea what our 7th dimensional self is doing at the moment or how our 5th dimensional self is feeling. We cannot see rays of energy passing though our environment and our bodies and we do not always know of other beings that are sending us love and light from other star systems. What we can do is increase our awareness about what we think, believe and do, thereby striving to raise the vibration of our own energy and existence here on earth and in the universe. Each one of our cells contains the blueprint of our being and they return to us what we give to them, since they are us. Our little cells live each day, as do we, and are influenced by us, just as we are by our environment so we must take care of the messages we send because what they create will come back to us. What you give is what you get, what goes around comes around; the love you take is equal to the love you make. It’s all up to you to determine the reality in which you live your life.
Do you believe:
- You are healthy and vibrant.
- Life is grand.
- We are all connected.
- Conscious human evolution is your highest priority.
- You are perfect.
- You are loved.
- You are an essential part of a whole.
- You live in an abundant universe.
- You are beautiful.
Life is meant to be wonderfully fantastic beyond our wildest expectations, but we must do something different to achieve this happy state if we are to rise to a higher consciousness. Each of us is required to determine what changes are necessary in our unique, particular lives to bring us to heaven on earth. Start small, make tiny changes and begin to see the results, for many small changes add up to larger ones and new and exciting realities. Remember, you are safe and you are loved.
from “Life is Good, All is Well – Everything is Vibration” by Wendy Ann Zellea
©2010 Wendy Ann Zellea
The Higher Self
Who is your true self? I thought I was my true self. How many selves do I have? Your true self is who you really are; it is how you came into the world. It is called by many names: higher self, spirit, soul, consciousness, but it’s who you are. It is the luminous being who is having a human experience and appears to the world as YOU and when you’re connected with your True Self, as you were when you were very young, you are happy. It’s the nature of your True Self to be happy and it is all that it knows which is why you experience difficulty when you do not listen to its guidance. The difficulty, in our culture, is remaining connected to this part of us. It’s never mentioned that we have this source of higher guidance or that it even exists. Humans have lived on earth for centuries in cultures that control them and keep them in a sort of slavish stupor. This is accomplished either by creating a mentality of scarcity, which convinces people that life should be a struggle with very few rewards, or by giving the general population toys to keep them happy, as is the case in more affluent countries.
Of course, neither situation can create happiness. On one hand, there is suffering, and on the other, material objects do not satisfy the true needs of the people who own them. The truth is, we live in an abundant universe and it is not necessary for anyone to live a life of scarcity. We, the residents of earth, are just starting to become aware of this on a larger scale and as we do, abundance will increase for all. It must be for all, not just for some. We cannot have those who have and those who have not, because we are all part of a whole call humanity. In addition we all exist on many dimensions, therefore all of these incarnations must be addressed, nurtured and maintained. Thanks to New Age media, people are being exposed to enlightened ways of thinking which have been forgotten for ages, but like weeds; keep popping up through the cracks. This phenomenon is enabling the process to occur more gracefully for those involved and with more difficulty for those who do not know they are involved.
Your True Self is not rational, but operates through feelings and intuition, providing you with a source of guidance that allows your True Self to communicate with you. You can always trust your feelings. That’s why you always know how you feel. When you listen to your feelings, you will always remain within the flow of life and that which you desire will come to you and transpire easily.
In our natural world, the seasons come and go and life continues perfectly and effortlessly. We never see the sun struggling to rise or the tide exerting an effort to come in or go out. There is no conflict when flowers bloom or lions roar. Nature occurs and flows and, as part of nature, so should we.
When you are aligned with your True Self:
- You are certain of your path in life and even if you are not certain of what it is; you know you are on it.
- You do not see the struggle in life, but rather the flow.
- Answers to questions come to you. You are in touch with your guidance through your feelings and intuition. It feels natural to you to know what to do in all situations.
- Things work out for the best; perhaps, not always the way you imagined, but you have faith that the result of your actions will be the best outcome and over time you see that they do.
- You are attracted to uplifting feelings and thoughts, avoiding negative input into your life.
Your True Self is not interested in negativity. It seeks that which is positive. We are all pleasure-seeking beings. In fact, everything which is alive is pleasure seeking; it is how life continues. Believe in yourself…your true self.
Excerpt from ‘Do You Want to Be Happy NOW?’ by Wendy Ann Zellea
What You Do Matters
We all have a moral standard by which we live, a set of cultural and self-created rules that determine our behavior and beliefs. This standard varies from person to person and sometimes adheres to the rules of society and occasionally does not. For example, the traffic light may be red, but you speed on through anyway. Any number of thoughts occur in your brain as you willingly break the law of society that demands that you stop at a red light, but you decide, that in this particular instance, you are going to make your own rule and set your own standard. After all, you are in a hurry and the light barely just changed anyway and you actually saw it turn orange so that should count for something and basically you are more important than the other drivers and too bad if they don’t like it, you need to get where you are going.
This scenario is an everyday occurrence in which, I would venture to say, most of us have participated, at one time or another and definitely witnessed frequently. The danger in these types of thought processes, however, is that, over time, they become habits and eventually lead to unwanted results, such as tickets or accidents. The issue here is not running a red light, but lowering your standards. Once you begin to slack off on one aspect of your life and then another, very soon you will begin to wonder why your life is not going well.
Of course we all know this, but what we are beginning to realize in this age of Conscious Human Evolution us that, in addition to the inconsideration we might have for others, we are acting against ourselves, but there is also a more global or universal view of the integrity, as I call it. It matters what you do, because when enough people behave a certain way, the entire human population is affected or as some call it, the 100th Monkey Phenomenon; that is when enough monkeys start washing their bananas with water, they all, through a sort of telepathic connection with their species, adopt that behavior.
Of course we see this happen all the time in the human population, in good ways and some not so good. The idea that eating healthy is better for one’s health started with a small number of people and now has spread to the general population. There is an epidemic of un-wellness in countries where people consume processed food and food grown un-naturally. When I lived in Belize the people used to say that we Americans were unhealthy because we do not eat fresh food and they were right. Processed food is very expensive in that country and most people cook their food every day using fresh ingredients.
I have lived on the Earth long enough to remember a time when it was unusual for someone to become ill and people lived long and healthy lives. It was in the 1960’s when TV dinners, soda and burger joints became the vogue, and then the norm, that the stage was being set for what we have today. That coupled with environmental pollution, stress and, most importantly, a belief that it is normal to become un-well has created the situation we have today where health care, or as my Dad called it, Health Scare is the most important issue in people’s lives. I call it Illness Care since there is less attention to health and more to treating illnesses with substances that will cause more problems than not.
But perhaps we had to create this mess to learn how to prevent it from happening again. Each day more and more people are opening their minds to alternative healing, recognizing that most un-wellness is only an imbalance in the individual that can be corrected by clearing the blocked energy causing the distress and changing one’s belief systems. Yes folks that is the wave of the future, realizing that you are what you think and you think what you believe, therefore there is only one thing left to do and that is change your beliefs. Change to what, you might ask? That is for you to discover, that is your responsibility and your purpose in this lifetime. You must re-evaluate your truth by being totally honest with yourself and putting the demands of others aside. There is no more time to waste. The evolutionary process is happening so rapidly that if you procrastinate on this one you will feel it, as they say in Belize.
The time has come to hop aboard, do something different, try something new, be nice, be kind, be generous, stop when the light turns red and realize that if you try to get somewhere before you are meant to be there you are missing your cue and it throws off everything. I used to leave for work at 10AM to arrive at 10:30AM and usually got there about 3-5 minutes late, worrying the entire way that I would be late, thinking up possible excuses for my boss and feeling ashamed that I wasn’t there on time. One day I decided to start leaving 10 minutes earlier and lo and behold I arrived on time or a few minutes earlier; I was relaxed and happy the entire day as a result and I realized that the 10 minutes I thought I was saving was costing me quite a bit, if I can place a value on my state of calmness throughout the day.
Treat yourself to an amazing journey into the new cycle of humanity that we have already entered. Life as we know it will change and you can either go with the flow or fight the current. No sense in asking you which you would choose now, is there?
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Desire – What Do You Love
We are taught to not be ourselves from the time we are very young. What we must do when we become adults is say what we want. When you want to say no, then say it and when you want to say yes, say that as well. You have the right to say whatever you want. Of course, there are different ways to say the same thing, but the important point is to be honest with yourself about what you truly desire. When you were a young child, you said yes and no without hesitation. Saying yes didn’t cause you too much trouble, but as soon as you learned to say no, you ardently began to state your objections to all limitations that were being placed on you.
How wonderful you felt when you discovered you could say no. The world was yours. Everything was going to be your way, exactly how you wished. What could be better? All your little life people had been telling you no and now you had joined the no club. You could tell them no. However, your joy was short-lived. You listened to others when they said no, but the same result was not achieved when you said no back. In fact, quite the opposite happened. When you said no, your mother and father got angry. You might have tried a few more times to tell them no, but after awhile you stopped. That was when you became disconnected with your feelings; you couldn’t say no, so why bother? You began to do what others wanted you to do, not what you wanted. After a while you stopped even thinking about what you truly wanted, no less trying to achieve it.
Then came the teenage years, when your desires began to re-surface and the choice was before you to continue to do what your parents and the world expected of you, to follow your friends or to do what you wanted. Almost all of us go a little wild in our teenage years, the degree being determined by how repressed we have been and our individual personalities. It’s the time of our lives when we have the opportunity to become unique beings or to follow the crowd. Those of us who choose individuality will be loners and those who follow others will have the approval of their peers and perhaps their family. The rewards of approval are diminished, however, by the separation we have from ourselves when we turn ourselves over to the crowd. The loneliness of those who choose to go their own way is lessened by the feelings of fulfillment that being connected to one’s self affords.
It’s our responsibility as adults to create our own beliefs. We learn the ideas of our parents and teachers when we are children and when we approach adulthood we begin to create our own truth. The teenage years are the testing grounds and the years following are the proving grounds.
Get to the root of what you really want. Do what makes you happy. Why not? Now you might ask, “Suppose I don’t want to go to work? Should I quit my job and just take my happiness to the grocery store?” No, that is not what I’m suggesting. Do you like your paycheck and the living it provides you? I do. So why would you want to quit your job and have no money? Most people wouldn’t even know what to do if they left their job–even if they still had the money.
The point is to decide what it is that you really want. Is it that you don’t want to work or is it that you want to do something different? I was able to leave one job, and start a new career that allowed me to maintain my standard of living. My desire was to work at what I loved, not just to have money and not have to work. So get to the root of your desire. Ask for what you want. Who should you ask, you ask? Ask who you think you should ask. Ask life, or the universe or yourself, but ask. Angels are waiting all the time to help you; all you need to do is ask. If you never try, you will never know.
Enjoy the sunrise…
Your Word – Watch What You Say
Every culture has its sayings, expressions that are intended to convey a bit of wisdom for life situations that occur frequently. For example, if you try advise someone and they do not change their behavior, you might say, “You can lead a horse to water, but you can’t make them drink.” Then there are other phrases, a bit more modern, that I hear on a regular basis that appear to be harmless little anecdotes, but in essence are the means by which we sabotage ourselves without even realizing it.
One such phrase, which I hear all too often, is, “It’s always something.” It is normally uttered, in a tone of defeat, when something unexpected and undesirable occurs. Let me begin by saying that it is not always something; if it were then life would be a constant stream of mishaps and we would probably say it’s never anything when things went smoothly. So when you go through life using that phrase when something happens, you are welcoming in such unwanted occurrences.
Delete is from your vocabulary and when someone else says it, reply,no it isn’t. If you can’t verbally contradict what someone else says then at least think it to yourself. This will free you of the mindset that you are a walking potential victim just waiting for something to wrong in your life and will allow you to adopt the belief that all is well and will continue to be.
The next little ditty I hear very often is, “With my luck.” To begin with, allow me to explain that there is no such thing as luck. There are events that occur as a result of the thoughts and beliefs that you create and send out into the universe. Those whose lives go well are those that go through each day with the belief that their life will go well.
I am not implying that they wake up each morning and say to themselves that their life will go well, but it is a belief in progress and success rather than failure and unfortunate circumstances. By uttering, with my luck, you are allowing life to send you, what you consider, unlucky events. Delete that phrase from your vocabulary too and understand that when you hear someone else using it, they are making themselves into a helpless, luckless victim and welcoming in circumstances they do not want.
We must be careful what we say, because our words are powerful. It is written, ‘In the beginning, there was the word’. From that word came all of creation and from your word comes what you create, so if you desire something in your life, don’t say that it will never happen, because you will ensure that it never does. If you wish to make a change in your life, don’t say that you cannot do it or you will find that you cannot. We can create what we desire by believing it will happen and thinking as though it already has.
If you want to achieve any goal you must make it a reality in your mind. Once I decided it was time to move to a new apartment. I thought about my requirements, what was absolutely essential. The new apartment would be on the third or fourth floor and have a balcony. That was absolute. A dishwasher would also be a plus. I looked at all the possible rentals in the area and left my name with the ones I was considering. Just at the appropriate time I got a call from the manager of my first choice building, saying that they had an apartment on the fourth floor with a balcony and a dishwasher. The apartment was completely refurbished and the rent was reasonable. And here I sit.
So it is not just that I am lucky, but I expect my life to proceed seamlessly and effortlessly and it does. That is why I always say, life is good, all is well.
Enjoy the May flowers from Van Saun Park, Paramus, NJ
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